Sade Speaks was once a savvy, competitive, passionate South Florida All-State shooting guard who hated when refs made “bad calls” against her and her teams. She didn’t hesitate to let them know when they were wrong and many times received technical fouls for her “unsporting conduct.”
“During the past decade when friends and others have heard I’m now a certified/working official, they can’t believe it,” says Sade smirking. I’m probably the last person many would expect to ref games. It’s a learning experience every time I take to the court. As a ref, we’re challenged to control are emotions and although sometimes these emotions still get the best of me, I’m not only growing every game I work, but officiating helps me grow as a person in life.”
Teachable moments. Sade, a mother of a 12-year-old travel baseball and basketball son, brings a teacher’s mentality to the games she works. With a bachelor’s degree in Elementary Ed specializing in Child Development from Miles College in Fairfield, Alabama, Sade has worked as an educator, girls basketball coach and track coach at local Georgia schools and learning centers.
She’s also been “that mom in the stands” who has given a baseball umpire a piece of her mind postgame after a blown call. My son (“King’s”) team once led by three in the last inning of a 9U tournament championship game. The other team had two outs, bases loaded and a full count when their batter hit a long high blast outside the foul pole a good four or five feet. Umpire signaled home run, game over by giving the kid a grand slam walk off.”
Sade went right at the 30-something ump and let her know he blew the call. “All I remember was him saying, ‘Ma’am, Please. Calm. Down. My angle was different from yours. I had it inside the foul pole.’”
Sade and C.S. Talbott met and started working together in Georgia’s Cherokee Basketball Officials’ Association in 2020. They have continued working together via the Peach State Basketball Officials’ Association, North Cobb Officials’ Association, and Atlanta Area Volleyball Association. Sade has officiated multiple varsity post-season basketball games for the Georgia High School Association.
“I’m excited to present REF TALK with C.S. Talbott,” adds Sade. Our combined sports-loving experiences we’ll bring to the table will generate endless material for in-depth insight and discussions with the guests we’re scheduling to join us! REF TALK will be a podcast for the sports fanatics in all of us with the goal of tackling the world-wide shortage of officials and challenging you to join this family.”